thank you
A month ago, I began a fundraiser for the American Cancer Society. It seemed a simple enough challenge: write at least thirty minutes a day, every day, for thirty days, and then post your thoughts to social media.
It was more difficult than I’d imagined it would be, primarily because cancer’s taken so much from my family and friends through the years. Because of that, I wanted to write with intention and purpose so that the words would mirror the spirit and courage of those who won and lost the battles.
I learned a lot along the way, and I can say without hesitation that I’m better for having accepted the challenge.
And so this evening I finish the fundraiser by sharing with you a few of the more important lessons I was blessed to learn this month. Here’s hoping that they’ll ring true with each of you.
Learn to be less selfish. You get more joy in helping others than in helping yourself.
Be true to yourself, and everything will be all right.
Believe in God. There will be innumerable times when your belief is shaken, but this is when you need to stand rock steady on the road of Faith. He will never let you down. Trust me on this one.
Try to spread smiles. It doesn't cost much, and it brings rewards tenfold. Not material rewards that are temporary, but permanent rewards such as connecting with another person, or seeing their eyes light up with joy.
Always live without fear of getting your heart broken, and you'll enjoy life in its truest form.
Empathy. We’re all blessed at birth with this quality. Use it to help someone. Anyone.
Lend an ear. Hold a hand. Give a hug.
Make the time to stop and smell the roses.
Remember: work isn't everything.
Puppies make everything better. Everything.
When you're angry, count to ten. Words can cause wounds that never heal. Words are more powerful than actions, so use them well.
Tell the people you love that you love them. Often.
Don't ever give up. The light may be closer than you think.
Know that it’s darkest before dawn.
There’s joy in everything and around every corner, my friends. Just look.
My thanks to those of you who made this journey with me, and my most sincere appreciation to those who donated cash or time or prayer. I appreciate it more than you’ll ever know.
